sights of hearing

This thing just popped up my head for some days ago. When you watch ordinary things in the real world, like for example; an ordinary family eat a fancy dinner on a fancy restaurant or when some dad name Ben is teaching his son how to ride a bicycle. It seems like it's no big deal, that is just the way it should be right? The weird thing here thou is that when you video record a similar thing like this and watch it 24 hours after the real time happening you feel a bit ugly inside. You get discussed of watching it. And how the hell could that be? I mean, when you see it live in real life you don't even care about it. But when it gets video recorded the life's getting all twisted. You don't get that feeling of that you know where it's happening and what's going to happen. It just is on a god damn TV-screen. This is kind of similar to when you hear your own voice on a cassette you have recorded in school or with some friends. You think that it's odd. You can't really get that the voice you are hearing on the cassette is yours. Maybe with sight it's the same way?